Author: Jessica Lowe

So there I was, staring at my phone at 11 PM, trying to craft the perfect good night text to my guy who was 2,000 miles away. I typed something. Deleted it. Typed again. Why was this so hard? Because distance makes every word count, that’s why. Long distance relationships need constant connection. Good night messages are your secret weapon. They’re the last thing he reads before sleep, which means you’re literally in his head as he drifts off. Pretty powerful stuff, right? These 99 messages will help you close that gap every single night. Some are sweet. Some are…

So there I was, lying in bed at 11 PM, staring at my phone like it owed me money. I’d been seeing this guy for a few weeks and wanted to send a sweet good night text. But every time I typed something, it felt either too clingy or too boring. “Good night!” felt like I was texting my mom. “Sweet dreams” sounded like a greeting card. Delete, delete, delete. Here’s the thing. A good night text shouldn’t be stressful. It’s just a simple way to let him know you’re thinking about him before you drift off. But you also…

So there I was, lying in bed after an amazing date, wondering if I should text him or play it cool. Spoiler: I texted him. And his response? Heart eyes emoji times three. That little good night text turned into an hour-long conversation that ended with plans for our next date. Good night texts are underrated magic. They’re the perfect way to end his day on a high note and keep that date night feeling alive. Whether you just started dating or you’ve been together forever, these texts bridge the gap between “see you later” and waking up thinking about…

So there I was, lying in bed at 11 PM, wondering if I should text him goodnight. My thumb hovered over the keyboard. Would it be too much? Not enough? I finally typed “sweet dreams” and immediately cringed. It felt so boring. Like ordering plain oatmeal when you could have chocolate chip pancakes. Here’s the thing about goodnight texts. They’re the last thing he sees before sleep, which means they stick. A generic “night” won’t cut it if you want to be memorable. But a message that feels personal and warm? That’s the kind of text that makes him fall…

Last Tuesday, I caught myself staring at my phone for ten whole minutes trying to craft the perfect good night text. I typed, deleted, retyped, and finally just sent “Night!” with a moon emoji. So original, right? My friend Rachel texted me the next day like “Girl, you’ve been dating him for three months and THAT’S what you sent?” She had a point. Here’s the thing. Good night texts are weirdly important. They’re the last thing he reads before bed, which means you’re literally the last thought in his head. That’s powerful stuff. But finding the right words to show…

So there I was, lying in bed at 11 PM, staring at my phone like it held the secrets of the universe. My boyfriend had just texted “Night,” and I wanted to send something back that was sweet but not sappy. Something that’d make him smile as he drifted off. But what? My brain felt like mush after a long day. I sent “Sweet dreams” and immediately regretted it. Boring. Generic. Totally forgettable. Here’s the thing. Good night texts are your last impression of the day. They’re the note you leave him with before sleep. Done right, they make him…

So there I was, lying in bed at midnight, phone glowing in my face like some kind of lovesick gremlin. My boyfriend was traveling for work and I missed him so much it physically hurt. I wanted to text him but “good night” felt boring. “Miss you” felt needy. I spent twenty minutes overthinking a simple text message. Sound familiar? Here’s the thing. When you miss someone, good night texts become your secret weapon. They’re the last thing he sees before sleep, which means you’re on his mind as he drifts off. That’s powerful stuff. But you need the right…

Picture this. You’re lying in bed, scrolling through your phone, and you think about him. Should you text? Will it seem too much? Here’s the truth: a sweet good night message is never too much when it comes from a genuine place. I’ve sent hundreds of these over the years, from the butterflies-in-stomach early dating phase to the cozy relationship stage. And guess what? They work magic. Good night texts do more than say “sleep well.” They show you’re thinking about him. They create intimacy across distance. They’re the last thought in his mind before sleep, which is prime real…

So picture this. It’s 11 PM. You’re in bed, scrolling through Netflix recommendations for the third time. Your boyfriend texts “goodnight,” and you reply “night babe” with a heart emoji. Again. For the tenth night in a row. Boring, right? I used to do this constantly. Same texts, same energy, same predictable routine. Then one night I switched it up with something a little spicier, a little more personal. His response? Three paragraphs and a promise to call me first thing in the morning. Game changer. Good night texts are your final impression before he falls asleep. They’re the last…

So there I was, 11:47 PM, staring at my phone like it held the secrets of the universe. I wanted to text him good night but didn’t want to sound boring. “Sleep well” felt like something my mom would say. I needed something that would make him smile, maybe even text back instead of just hearting my message and passing out. That’s when I realized good night texts are basically an art form. They can be flirty without trying too hard, sweet without being cheesy, or funny without being cringe. The right one keeps you on his mind as he…