Okay, so I know the term “dark science” might sound a little dramatic, but stay with me here.
When I first heard about using psychological techniques to make someone obsessed with you, I was a bit skeptical, too. But after my ex and I broke up, I was desperate to try something—anything—that might help me get him back.
What I didn’t expect was just how powerful these strategies could be. Not only did I get his attention, but I also made him completely obsessed with me. So much that it made it easy to get back with him using these powerful techniques.
Here’s how it all went down.
The Heartbreak That Started It All
When my ex and I broke up, it felt like the rug was pulled out from under me. We had our ups and downs, like any couple, but I didn’t see the breakup coming. One minute we were fine, and the next, he was telling me we needed some “space.” I was heartbroken, confused, and, honestly, a little angry. I wanted him back, but more than that, I wanted him to realize that he made a huge mistake by letting me go.
So, I did what anyone would do—I turned to the internet for advice. That’s when I stumbled upon the concept of “dark science.” It’s not as sinister as it sounds. It’s really about understanding the deeper psychological triggers that drive attraction and attachment. I figured, why not give it a shot? What did I have to lose?
Step 1: The Strategic Withdrawal
The first thing I learned was the importance of strategic withdrawal. It’s basically the opposite of what your instincts tell you to do after a breakup. Instead of bombarding him with texts or trying to “accidentally” run into him, I did the exact opposite: I went completely off the grid. No texts, no calls, no social media posts—nothing. I wanted him to feel my absence, to wonder what I was up to and why I wasn’t trying to get him back.
My Experience: The first few days were brutal. I was constantly tempted to check his social media or send him a quick “how are you?” text, but I resisted. And then, something interesting happened. About two weeks into my disappearing act, he reached out to me. A simple, “Hey, how have you been?” It was exactly what I wanted. He was starting to miss me, starting to wonder.
Step 2: The Glow-Up
While I was off the radar, I focused on what the internet lovingly calls a “glow-up.” This wasn’t just about looking better (though that was definitely part of it); it was about becoming the best version of myself—happier, more confident, more independent. I started working out, picked up some new hobbies, and spent more time with friends. The goal wasn’t just to improve myself but to make sure that when he did see me again, he’d realize exactly what he was missing.
My Experience: By the time we finally ran into each other at a mutual friend’s party, I was a completely different person—at least on the outside. I was confident, smiling, having a great time. And you know what? He noticed. He couldn’t keep his eyes off me, and I could tell he was regretting his decision to let me go. It felt amazing to see that look on his face.
Step 3: The Subtle Reconnection
Once I had his attention, I didn’t dive back into things headfirst. Instead, I took a more subtle approach. When he texted, I didn’t respond right away. When we talked, I kept things light, positive, and just a little bit mysterious. I wanted him to see that I was doing just fine without him and that if he wanted me back, he’d have to work for it.
My Experience: We started texting more frequently, but I always kept my replies short and sweet. No late-night heart-to-hearts, no deep discussions about the breakup—just casual, fun conversation. This drove him crazy. The less I gave, the more he wanted. He started initiating conversations more and more, clearly trying to figure out where he stood with me. It was like watching a cat chase after a laser pointer.
Step 4: The Power of Suggestion
One of the more advanced “dark science” techniques is the power of suggestion. This involves subtly planting ideas in your ex’s mind without being direct about it. I’d mention how great I was feeling lately, or how I’d been having so much fun trying new things. The idea was to make him think that I was thriving (which, honestly, I was) and to make him realize that he wanted to be a part of that.
My Experience: During one of our conversations, I casually mentioned that I was thinking about taking a solo trip—something I’d never done before. His response? “That sounds amazing! Maybe we could go somewhere together sometime.” Bingo. The idea that I was moving on and living my best life without him made him want to be a part of it. He was starting to chase after me, instead of the other way around.
The Turning Point: Obsession Mode
As we reconnected, it became clear that he was no longer just interested—he was obsessed. He started texting me all the time, wanting to know what I was up to, who I was with, and when we could see each other again. He even started hinting at wanting to get back together, saying things like, “I’ve really missed us,” or “I think we should give it another shot.”
My Experience: The best part? I didn’t have to do anything drastic to make it happen. By understanding the psychological triggers that drive attraction and attachment, I was able to turn the tables and make him want me even more than before. It wasn’t about manipulation; it was about letting him see what he was missing and making him work to get it back.
Advanced Techniques to Win Your Ex Back
If you’re curious about how these techniques work and want to dive deeper into the psychology behind them, there’s a video presentation that explains it all. These advanced strategies can help you get your ex back by tapping into the deeper aspects of human emotion and attraction.
Click here to watch the video and discover advanced techniques to win your ex back.
Remember, it’s not about tricks or games—it’s about understanding what makes people tick and using that knowledge to your advantage. With the right approach, you can make your ex realize what they’ve lost—and make them want you back more than ever. Good luck!