Let’s face it—getting over an ex is hard.
We’ve all been there, lying in bed, replaying every conversation, every fight, and every little moment that might have led to the breakup. Sometimes, it feels like the more you try to move on, the more you realize how much you want them back.
That’s exactly where I found myself a while back, and after a lot of trial and error (and a few late-night internet deep dives), I discovered a few sneaky techniques that helped me get my ex back (you can watch a video about these techniques here)
These aren’t about manipulation or playing games; they’re about understanding psychology and using it to your advantage. Here are my top three sneaky techniques that just might help you, too.
Technique 1: The Disappearing Act
The first technique is what I like to call the Disappearing Act. It’s simple but powerful: you go silent. No texts, no calls, no social media interactions. You essentially vanish from their radar for a bit. The reason this works is because, as humans, we often don’t realize what we have until it’s gone. When you suddenly stop being part of your ex’s daily life, it creates a void. They might not notice it immediately, but give it time. Eventually, they’ll start wondering why you’re not reaching out, and curiosity will get the better of them.
My Experience: When I first tried this, it was honestly nerve-wracking. I was so used to checking in with my ex that going silent felt like torture. But after a couple of weeks, I started noticing subtle signs that he was missing me—like him suddenly liking my old photos or sending a random text asking how I was doing. The key is to stay strong and resist the urge to break the silence too soon.
Technique 2: The Mirror Effect
The Mirror Effect is all about reflecting their behavior. If they’re distant, you’re distant. If they reach out, you respond in kind but don’t overextend. The goal is to subtly let them see what life is like without your constant presence, while also showing them that you’re not sitting around waiting for them. You’re mirroring their actions, which can create a psychological pull—people tend to miss what they can’t easily have.
My Experience: I used this technique after my ex started reaching out again following my Disappearing Act. When he sent a casual text, I didn’t jump to respond immediately. Instead, I waited a bit, kept my response short and sweet, and then went on with my day. It didn’t take long for him to start initiating more conversations, and before I knew it, he was the one trying to get more of my attention.
Technique 3: The Glow-Up
This technique is probably the most fun—The Glow-Up. After a breakup, it’s easy to let yourself go, but that’s exactly the opposite of what you should do. Instead, focus on becoming the best version of yourself. Hit the gym, change up your style, pick up new hobbies, and make sure your ex can see that you’re living your best life. The idea here is to subtly show them what they’re missing out on, without ever directly saying it.
My Experience: I decided to throw myself into fitness after my breakup. Not only did it help me feel better physically, but it also gave me a huge confidence boost. When I started posting about my new hobbies and activities on social media, I noticed my ex couldn’t help but start watching my stories and liking my posts. The Glow-Up worked like a charm—it wasn’t long before he was the one reaching out to reconnect.
Wrapping It Up – Your Next Step
So there you have it—three sneaky techniques that helped me win my ex back. The Disappearing Act, the Mirror Effect, and the Glow-Up are all about shifting the dynamics in your favor without coming across as needy or desperate. It’s about making them realize that they miss having you in their life.
But if you’re looking for something even more powerful, there’s a secret technique that takes all of this to the next level. It’s based on psychology and can help you tap into your ex’s emotions in a way that makes them want you back—badly.
If you want to learn more about this technique and how it works, there’s a special video presentation that explains it all. Trust me, this could be the game-changer you’ve been looking for.
Click here to watch the video and discover the secret technique to win your ex back.
Remember, getting your ex back doesn’t have to be about grand gestures or desperate moves. Sometimes, the sneaky, subtle techniques work best. Good luck, and stay confident!