100 Text Templates for When You Want to Flirt But Don’t Know What to Say

Some days the vibe is there, but the words? Not so much.

You want to flirt.
You want to be cute, maybe a little bold.
But all that comes out is “hey.”

That’s where these text templates come in.

Whether you’re chatting with a new crush or reigniting the spark with your partner, these 100 ideas will help you say just enough to get things going.

No awkward typing. No overthinking.

Just copy, tweak, and hit send.

Flirty Icebreakers to Start the Conversation

These work when you want to slide in casually—but still leave a strong impression.

1. So… when are you going to admit you like me?
2. I was having a normal day until your name popped into my head.
3. Be honest. You miss me a little, don’t you?
4. I saw someone today who reminded me of you—except you’re cuter.
5. Just realized I smiled at my phone because of you.
6. What would you do if I texted “I’m outside your place”?
7. On a scale from 1 to “need to see you,” I’m at “canceling plans.”
8. I think my phone’s bored. You should text me something fun.
9. Just needed to let you know… you looked really good last time.
10. What’s your go-to move when flirting? Asking for… science.
11. I had a dream about you. Should I be worried or excited?
12. You’ve got five seconds to say something cute. Go.
13. What are you doing right now (and can I join)?
14. Bet I can make you smile with just one text.
15. I’ve decided you owe me attention.
16. You’re trouble… and I’m into that.
17. What’s your worst pickup line? I need a laugh.
18. Just curious: How do you look that good without trying?
19. I should be productive, but thinking about you is more fun.
20. Rate how flirty I’m allowed to be today.
21. Is it weird I miss someone I haven’t kissed yet?
22. You’re my favorite distraction.
23. Thinking of you. Dangerous, I know.
24. Let’s flirt. I’ll start: You’re hot.
25. Are you always this charming, or is it just when I’m watching?

Playful Questions That Spark Flirty Vibes

Perfect for keeping the conversation light, fun, and full of possibilities.

26. What’s your type—and why is it clearly me?
27. Truth or dare? Don’t chicken out.
28. If I showed up at your door right now, what would happen?
29. Would you rather cuddle or… do something less innocent?
30. What’s your idea of a perfect date—with me, obviously.
31. What would you do if I kissed you right now?
32. If we were stuck in an elevator, how would you pass the time?
33. Want to make plans or just flirt forever?
34. What’s the most random thing you find attractive?
35. Have you ever had a crush on someone this flirty before?
36. Would you survive a night alone with me?
37. Want to tell me a secret, or should I start?
38. What’s one thing you’ve always wanted to try—with someone like me?
39. Want to play a game of “how fast can you make me blush”?
40. If I dared you to send a flirty selfie, would you?
41. When was the last time someone made your heart race?
42. Think I could steal a kiss without getting caught?
43. Ever imagined kissing me… or is that just me?
44. What’s your flirty nickname for me? I’ll rate it.
45. If we were characters in a romance movie, what’s our plot?
46. If I texted “come over,” what would you bring with you?
47. What’s your favorite excuse to get close to someone?
48. Do you believe in love at first text?
49. What would you do if I said “I dare you to flirt with me”?
50. Be honest: how distracting do you think I am?

Subtle and Smooth Compliments

These make them feel good while keeping the tone flirty, light, and clever.

51. Not to be dramatic, but I’d totally get lost in your eyes.
52. Your smile? Yeah, kind of illegal.
53. You somehow make texting exciting. That’s talent.
54. You make awkward flirting look really good.
55. I like the way you talk. It’s dangerous.
56. You’re cute when you’re confident. But also when you’re not.
57. I swear you flirt even when you’re not trying.
58. If I had a crush list, you’d be at the top—twice.
59. You should be proud. I almost ran out of words to describe you.
60. That look you gave me the other day? Still recovering.
61. You could totally distract me for hours.
62. The way you text? Flawless.
63. I like how you always know the perfect thing to say.
64. You’re like the human version of “just one more text.”
65. I don’t know what’s better—your looks or your personality.
66. You could literally say anything, and I’d still flirt back.
67. You’ve got this thing I can’t quite explain… but I want more of it.
68. You make me laugh. And that’s dangerous.
69. You’re ridiculously attractive. Just saying.
70. I like your vibe. It’s got “kiss me” energy.
71. You walk into a room and suddenly everyone else disappears.
72. I like your face. A lot.
73. I keep re-reading your texts. No shame.
74. You somehow manage to be cute and hot at the same time.
75. You’re making it very hard to stay focused today.

Bold and Straightforward Texts to Make a Move

Ready to take flirting to the next level? These are more direct—but still playful and charming.

76. I’d really like to kiss you sometime. Just putting that out there.
77. We should stop flirting and do something about it.
78. I want to see you. Soon.
79. If I said I wanted to wake up next to you, would that be too much?
80. I’m into you. A lot more than I planned to be.
81. Not gonna lie… thinking about you is my new favorite hobby.
82. Let’s be reckless and fall for each other.
83. If I don’t get to hug you soon, I might explode.
84. You make me want to break my “no catching feelings” rule.
85. I want you to kiss me like you mean it.
86. My favorite place might just be right next to you.
87. I don’t need a date idea. I just need you.
88. I’d flirt less if you weren’t so irresistible.
89. Want to skip the small talk and talk about us?
90. I wish you were here. Right now.
91. My brain says chill. My heart says text you again.
92. You + me + a blanket = the only plan I want this weekend.
93. One kiss and I’ll shut up. Promise.
94. I don’t want anything fancy. Just you and a little chaos.
95. Let’s make this flirting thing a full-time situation.
96. I want to hear you say my name—preferably in person.
97. I like you. Bold, I know. But someone had to say it.
98. So… can I call you mine, or are we still pretending?
99. I want to flirt with you forever. Sound good?
100. Let’s turn this “what are we” into “we’re definitely a thing.”

How to Use These Flirty Texts Naturally

You don’t have to copy them word-for-word.
Pick the ones that fit your vibe.
Make them your own. Add a smiley, a wink, or that inside joke you both love.

The goal is to feel confident, not scripted.

Flirting doesn’t need to be perfect.
It just needs to feel fun, real, and a little unexpected.

Bottom line?
Next time you’re stuck on what to say, scroll through this list, trust your gut, and send the one that makes you smile.

Because the best flirty texts are the ones you enjoy sending.