80 Flirty Texts to Send When You’re Just Starting to Talk

So… you just started talking to someone new.
It’s flirty. It’s fun.
And now you’re staring at your phone like, “What do I even say without sounding too extra… or too boring?”

Girl, we’ve all been there.

The good news? You don’t need to send a paragraph or write a love poem.
Just one perfectly flirty message can make him smile, pause, and maybe even start imagining date number two.

These texts are light, playful, and just suggestive enough to get the spark going without jumping into cringe territory. Ready to flirt like a pro? Let’s go.

Casual and Cute Icebreaker Texts

1. I’m already liking this little vibe we’ve got going.
2. Is it just me, or are you kind of adorable?
3. Just a warning: I flirt when I’m comfortable.
4. You’re dangerously close to becoming my favorite notification.
5. Talking to you is surprisingly easy. I like it.
6. You’ve officially upgraded my screen time stats.
7. I didn’t expect to like your texts this much.
8. You give good convo. Just saying.
9. Are you always this fun or am I getting the VIP version?
10. This might be bold, but I think we’d look good together.

Playful Questions That Hint at Interest

11. So what exactly does someone have to do to get your full attention?
12. What’s something about you I wouldn’t guess from your photos?
13. What’s your toxic dating trait? (Mine’s falling too fast when it’s fun.)
14. Be honest—do you always text this smoothly, or am I special?
15. Are you flirting with me or am I just hopeful?
16. What would we be doing if we were hanging out right now?
17. Do you usually go for sarcastic girls? Asking for a friend.
18. What’s your idea of the perfect first kiss?
19. Are you more of a “slow burn” or “kiss me now” type?
20. If we went on a date, who’d make the first move—you or me?

Sweet Texts That Keep Things Light

21. I didn’t expect to smile this much from texts today.
22. You’re already making it hard not to think about you.
23. You seem like trouble… and I kinda like it.
24. If texting you is this good, I can’t imagine the real thing.
25. You’re lowkey the best part of my day right now.
26. This convo is definitely distracting—in the best way.
27. I already know I’d laugh way too much around you.
28. I feel like we’d have way too much fun together.
29. I wasn’t planning to flirt today but here we are.
30. I like this little “us” energy we’ve got going.

Teasing Texts That’ll Make Him Want More

31. You’re kinda cute. Don’t let it go to your head though.
32. Keep texting like this and I’ll have a crush by tomorrow.
33. I’m trying to play it cool, but you’re not making it easy.
34. Stop being so charming. It’s suspicious.
35. You’re lucky I like flirty people.
36. I’m not flirting. I’m just naturally this adorable.
37. I don’t flirt first. But I am a great replier.
38. You think you’re the smooth one in this chat? Cute.
39. If you’re trying to get my attention, it’s working.
40. I should be asleep… but then you texted.

Spicy Hints Without Going Full Dirty

41. I had a cute outfit on today… would’ve been better if you saw it.
42. Just imagining what you sound like in person.
43. I wonder how flirty you are face to face.
44. If your hugs are anything like your texts, I’m in trouble.
45. I’m not saying I want to kiss you. But I’m also not not saying it.
46. I bet your voice would sound even better whispered.
47. Do you give the same kind of energy in person? Asking for science.
48. If I sent a flirty selfie… would you know what to do with it?
49. I kinda want to sit too close to you and pretend it’s accidental.
50. Don’t tempt me unless you’re ready to flirt back hard.

“Thinking About You” Vibes

51. I saw something today and thought of you.
52. Lowkey miss talking to you already.
53. Something about you is stuck in my head.
54. It’s weird how much I like texting you already.
55. I wonder what you’re doing right now.
56. Not to be dramatic, but I hope you text me again soon.
57. You’re the kind of person I want to send random thoughts to.
58. Just realized how often I’ve been checking my phone for your name.
59. I like getting to know you. It feels easy.
60. You’ve got a very distracting smile. Even in photos.

Flirty One-Liners to Keep Things Flowing

61. You text like someone who knows they’re hot.
62. I bet you flirt with everyone, huh?
63. You’re officially allowed to make me blush.
64. Okay, fine, you’re charming. Don’t abuse the power.
65. I like this vibe. Let’s not ruin it by overthinking.
66. Just in case no one told you today—you’re cute.
67. You make texting actually enjoyable.
68. Admit it—you love when I text first.
69. This could either be innocent… or lead to something very interesting.
70. You’re not boring. That’s rare.

Late Night Flirts That Don’t Cross the Line

71. If we were hanging out right now, we’d probably still be laughing.
72. Nighttime makes me a little flirty. You’ve been warned.
73. Can’t sleep. Blaming you.
74. Just thinking how nice it’d be to hear your voice right now.
75. This convo is way more fun than my dreams.
76. Late-night texts hit different with you.
77. If you were here, what would we be doing right now?
78. You’ve got main-character energy in my head right now.
79. I like that this isn’t just small talk—it feels fun.
80. Should I say goodnight or flirt a little longer?

Whether you just exchanged numbers or you’re three voice notes deep, these flirty texts are your secret weapon.
They say just enough. They keep the vibe light. And they make sure you stay on his mind.

So go ahead. Pick one. Hit send.
Let the sparks fly.